Wilding became a well-to-do lawyer in Christchurch, New Zealand, and was appointed a King's Counsel in 1913.
Their house, "Fownhope" in St Martins, Christchurch, had two tennis courts, an asphalt winter court and a summer grass court.
He founded Wilding Park, which is today the largest tennis centre in Canterbury.
He won the New Zealand doubles title five times between 1887 and 1894 with his partner Richard Harman.Their son Tony Wilding, was a world champion tennis player, and played cricket for Canterbury, but was killed in action during the First World War.
Their daughter Cora Wilding was an artist and outdoor enthusiast, and founded the Youth Hostel Association of New Zealand in 1932.
He died, aged 92, in Christchurch on 5 July 1945, and was buried at Bromley Cemetery.